Saturday, December 6, 2014

Hello all of you in the world of the  ECE.  This week we are talking about team building.  Hummmm  That is a big topic in the ECE world because we work in teams of two or more people and our team includes a classroom of children.  An entire community can become a team when there is a common cause, vision, goal or purpose is clearly defined for the benefit of all the members.  In the Montessori classroom or community the well defined purpose and goal is the normalization of the children.  Dr. Montessori defined normalization as a child being able to fit into society for the benefit of the larger community.  I think as we work together and play together and go through life together the importance of team work is something we should think deeply about. So how do we disengage or adjourn from this community?
In the Montessori Classroom the children are in charge of themselves. This does not mean they are unsupervised.   We also have car line or pick up time with the parents meeting the child in a designated place at the school.   Saying good by is as simple as a hand wave or a hug.  I love to see the expressions on the face as they greet mom or dad.  If we as teachers the expression will be one of joy.  Joy at seeing mom and dad and the knowledge that they will be back the next day to once again be part of  a larger "self"

As an adult I have been involved in several project committees The first one was when I was in college.  Our town had a meeting to see how a program could be created for the youth who were disenfranchised in our town could be created and implemented.   I was the only "youth" to show up so I got asked to be on the steering committee.  We met for moths at 7:00 AM to form a mission, goals and programs.  I worked with men and women who were "somebody"in our community.  And when it was over we had a program called Attention To Youth who would be funded by grants ect.... and the prospect of a house for kids to stay while they transitioned either back home or to the next step in their lives.  I also helped renovate the house removing layers of wall paper and cleaning.  After that I go busy in college and lost track of the program and the results.  But as I look back on it now I learned that working with people was a hard task and one has to bring an open mind and a ready to learn new things about people attitude.  I try to still have that perspective as I work with small groups of teachers in a semi consulting role that seems to have developed during my home school years and now as a Montessori teacher. Disengaging from someone who I work closely with depends on how much emotional currency I have spent during that time.   In the Attention to Youth group I was not aware of how much work we were doing.  And when it ended I went on with my life.  In the consulting, because I work on a more intimate level I find I worry about the people if things worked out and if as homeschooling parents they have the commitment and tenacity to really home school their child.  In Montessori I just make some simple suggestions and let them figure the rest out.
As I come close to the end of my Master's program I will miss engaging with my virtual classmate.  Some I hope to keep in contact with so we can mentor each other.  I think that is the best was to keep a team going while at the same time adjourning.

thanks for dropping by

Peace and all good

4 comments:

  1. Linda, you stated something so key...having an open-mind. It is amazing how many individuals I run into in this field who are closed minded. We are supposed to teach children to have an open-mind about all situation, but the example we are setting is the opposite.

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  2. Linda:
    It is with hope that I hope to see you again. I think the closer it gets to the end of this term emotions begin to surface because not only are we in the class together it seems like we have became of family of learners in the Early Childhood field. I think what I'm going to miss the most in the engaging in conversation and ideas. Good luck in your future educational endeavors!

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  3. Hello Linda,

    I just wanted to take the opportunity to say thank you for you wisdom, expertise and personal stories that you shared throughout the course. I learned a lot about the Montessori way of teaching and learning from you through your discussions. Maybe we will have the opportunity to see each other face-to-face during graduation. If not, I wish you all the success in the future. Continue to serve and be a blessing to all of those you encounter for it will be returned to you.

    Tabitha Abney

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  4. Hello Linda, thank you for everything. Even though we have not face to face, but our interaction through online class has been an amazing journey. I have learned so much from you and your experiences and knowledge. I wish to have other classes with you and hopeful we will meet again. Good luck for everything and please continue to support early childhood education field. Happy Holiday

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